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tash is weird. but funny. haha.

last night abt 2am she sms-ed me to say her bf's mom was admitted to a hospital in KL and so they are driving up the very night (wee morning, rather?) and will be back later in the day. and she added at the back of her sms - "took the toothpaste. open the new one. bye bye."

i thot tt was hilarious!! tt wud be the last thing on my mind if i were her!! all i can say is she is a kind soul and i hope her bf's mom is alright.

next month this time i would have moved into my new place. am pretty excited since i'm gonna be staying in the block right behind another bestie. her mom's even invited me to dinner at their plc oredi. *overjoyed* some family warmth at last, even tho it is at another family's expense. no one can understand how much i am craving family together-ness.

lately the mommy bug in me has resurfaced. i dunno if it's me or are there more pregnant ladies ard my vicinity lately. i swear, i see one at every corner i turn. and i am so so so envious of them.. and that little bulge in their front..

in the past i used to get realli excited and look forward to becoming a mommy myself.. but lately.. when i see pregnant ladies.. i feel a bit upset. cuz i dunno if i will be able to wed in the 1st plc, not to even mention having a baby.

we had one of the most devastating quarrels this week. it lasted for 3 days. and it was over the thing i hated to quarrel abt most - MONEY. altho i must admit, it had reali been my fault. i overspent, and i knew it. it was a matter of time the cat would be out of the bag. i dunno why i didn't jus apologise and do the usual, "i won't do it again" fashion and get it over and done with. instead, we quarreled and quarreled and it was so heated tt i can still feel my anger as i am typing this.

something dawned on me and made me realise it's importance even tho i haf heard this particular phrase many times, but perhaps they were from the wrong ppl or at the wrong time. one time we were having dinner with agus's family. it was a cute group of ppl. agus and his wife, his parents, *him* and i. it was like the transitions of a couple. the bf and gf, the newly wed, and the old couple. so his mom was telling us abt 夫妻之道。 and she said, "两个人在一起，最重要就是不要太计较。" i knew that, but perhaps it was the way she had said it.. she stole a glance at her 糟老头 like seeking for approval after she said it and he nodded gently in unison. it was like they were livng examples. and at that point, i totally understood wat the phrase meant. it does not only refer to money matters, but also times when both parties are pushing the blame to each other, times when one partner does something inconsiderate, times when one partner is late, times when one partner does not keep to his/her promise.. 全都不要计较。真的。becuz end of the day, it is not abt who's right or wrong, but abt whether u r both happy tgt.

so as i thot abt tt precious piece of advise from agus's mom, i took the 1st step and smsed *him*, telling him i'm sorry and tt it will not happen again.

and in the same old fashion, it works like a charm and he melts.

see, all it takes is for one person to say something nice, it is not that difficult, realli.

i wud rather b HAPPY than b RIGHT. :)

*de ja vu! i've said the same thing somewhere else in my blog before!*